The first problem that you are having sounds like cavitation. The prop is sucking air when you try to accelerate too fast. Its the same problem that occurs if you jump from wave to wave with the boat and the prop exits the water (if only partially). In your case, its highly improbable that the prop is actually exiting the water, even partially. Whats probably happening is, as the transom is forced down as you accelerate, it forces air down as well, creating if you will an underwater bubble. This bubble is enough for the prop to lose 'grip' on the water, thereby increasing revs with no corresponding increase in boat speed. If you accelerate slower, the transom is not forced down to the same degree and the prop maintains its bite.
Correct the problem by looking in your o/b owner's manual. The problem will lie in two areas - either the load is not evenly distributed in the boat or the angle of the o/b to the transom is incorrect. In either case, it should be an easy fix. If I was a betting man, I'd bet on the transom angle but then again, if you have ever seen me play the slots, try the other one first.